大学生人际关系英文演讲

Department:机电工程系

Class: 电气B084班(分级B087班)

Group members :

General purpose:to inform

Specific purpose:to inform college students how to deal with interpersonal relationship.

Thesis statement:in the thesis the writers tell the importance and methods of interpersonal relationship to students.

College Interpersonal Relationship

Good afternoon,ladies and gentlemen:

What is learnt in the university besides knowledge? Why we go to university instead of going to society?As university students ,we should train various kinds of ability,for instance,interpersonal relationship,independence, innovation, grasp information ability , learning ability and so on.Among them the cultivation of interpersonal relationship is particularly important.

Marx ,the greatest philosopher, once said: People are the totality of different social relationships.Everyone does not exist by himself.He is related to various

kinds of social relationships.University life is a turnning point from tower of ivory to society.And university interpersonal relationship is also part of society interpersonal relationship.It has great effect in physical and mental health.At the same time ,it also promote their maturity and development .However

,when

people were in middle school with heavy pressure,they did’t aware this kind of relationship,which made them selfish and cold. Even though they have entered university, they still have no idea about how to deal with relationships between his classmates.And then follows many problems.

In a reserch given by a authority department,the barrier in handling relationships can be summarized as lack of intimate friends,difficulties in communicating with someone,infrequency in communicating process,troubles in communicating and fear in interpersonal relationship.If the problems stated above can’t be solved timely, he will have psychology illness.What’s worse,it may bring hurt to not only himslf but also others and then at last breaks the law.So how to deal with relationships is of great importance.

The core of interpersonal relationship is coorperation and commuication.You should firstly be honest to others because honesty is the most valuabe treasure in the world.Only honesty can gain coorperation and commuication.The principle of interpersonal relationship are as follows.

(1) principle of equality:in our socialism society the first and most

important thing you should insist is that everyone is equal in interpersonal relationship.No matter it is public or personal communication,no matter he or she

is noble or formal,we should all in the same height.

(2) principle of tolerace:there are different kinds of people in college and

you should tolerate various customs and languages.No matter you have similarity or difference,you both can be good friends.Only by this can you improve youself deeply.

(3) principle of reciprocity and mutual benefit:it means the reciprocity and

mutual benefit between the people .Interpersonal relationship is bidirectional,it can’t last for a long time if just one person benefit from it.Only both persons get beneficial advantages can it continue.So everyone should pay and consecrate,both physical and mental.

(4) principle of good faith:we all hate being cheated by others.So faith is

very important via communicating.If you have promised something to others ,you should stick to it and do everything you can to make it come true.

(5) principle of forgiveness:it means don’t deal in micrograms.There is no

doubt that contradictions will occur in interpersonal relationship.Thus you’d better learn how to stand others’attitudes and words.If the problems happen in your side,you should admit your mistakes and undertake responsiblities.Only in this way can your froze relationship be melted.

On the basic of these principles listed above,we should master some specific tips to further to develop the ability of interpersonal relationship.

(1) Even though you will meet so many people in college,you’d better

learn their name by heart.When you see him ,say “Hello!” to him initiativly and politely.

(2) motivation.

Have good manners.Be easy to feel relaxed so that stimulate contact

(3) with you.

Train lively personality and let others feel pleasant when they stay

(4) Make youself calm and reasonable.At the same time ,don’t

complain too often,which may make both you and others happy.

(5) Comfort the hurt one.Encourage the failed one.Help the one in

trouble and congratulation to one’s achievements.

(6) others.

Be independent and confident so that make youself be faithful to

From all stated above,we get to know there is indeed something else we learn besides knowledge.That is interpersonal relationship.And then we go to college for that.If we step into this direction,we will find that everything is changing quietly.With time passing by, interpersonal relationship will be more natural and easier.At last,we will compose a perfect chapter in our university life.

Thank you!